My husband has been retired for about 8 years and his mental
and physical health are deteriorating. He hasn't found himself a hobby outside
of social media and he's spent many of his days staring at a computer screen, a
smart phone or a tablet. Things You Should Know Over time, his mind and body have been slowly breaking
down until his body got to the point where it filled up with fluids, his muscle
tone is significantly reduced and his "get up and go" got up and
left. Mentally, he is always tired and rarely leaves our bedroom.
As a spiritualist, shaman and mystic, I understand this is a
choice he is making for his life. As his wife however, it's been a struggle. I
tried very hard to engage my husband in life. I suggested spontaneous road
trips which we used to do all the time or going to movies I know he would
enjoy. I encouraged him to take up sailing and fishing, both of which he loved
doing as a child. Basically, I felt like I've been trying to keep him alive.
At times, I forget myself and engaged in his depressive
behaviours and attitudes. What's the point of living when no one around me
seems to want to fully engage in life? When I start asking myself these types of questions, that's
a sign I am heading down a dangerous path and one I don't choose for my life. What's the point of living when no one around me seems to
want to fully engage in life? The point is because I'm still alive!
I am still
here to experience all of the incredible gifts that life brings. We all make choices for our lives. People can suggest
activities and experiences you might be interested however, the truth is we
ultimately make our own decisions. No one can make you do anything unless you
allow it to happen.

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